A Woman And Her Hair - A Love Story

I've always loved my hair. And it's loved me. We've shared long times together, and the short. We've been through chemicals, and bad hair days. We've always pulled through.

But lately, I've been a little stressed, and I got the 'mid-life I'm a little frumpy so let's do something funky with my hair' bug, and so it came to pass, that I now have tri-colored hair. There's my natural brown, plus shades of dark red, darker brown, and the festive 'I think it makes me look younger' blonde streaks.

The stresses of everyday life, the economy (Yes!! I blame it!!) and my personal choice to funkify my hair beyond belief, made my hair (as Jenn B at Frinj says...) "Mad" at me. It's begun falling out, and not minding when I tell the bangs to swoop. My hair has been very disobedient, and simply has not reacted with the love I'm used to. And so, I needed to apologize.


So, I bought Difiaba Hydressense Shampoo & Conditioner. (yes, this link is to our website, as a plug, where you may purchase this lovely product to try this for yourself if you find yourself in a similar boat as I...) and I must admit - my hair is beginning to share the love, and after only 2 uses - it's feeling so much better - honestly.

Difiaba is an high-end product, made in Italy - and very exclusive. With an array of product to choose from - you can't go wrong with Difiaba, and it smells DIVINE.

One note of caution: Difiaba is SO exclusive - they know only really smart people buy their product. So, on the tubes (like the one pictured left) - there is some sort of 'secret opening protection' that required my calling in military support to remove. I was wounded in the battle trying to open it, so I am offering you pre-support here, letting you know that you will want to REMOVE the little clear THINGY on the front of the 'snap' before attempting to open, or a piece of your finger might go with it.

Beyond the small issue trying to get the dang thing open - my hair loves this stuff, and yours will too. Happy Hair Repair!

It's Like Shopping at COSTCO or SAM'S... But WAY More Cool.

Did you know? You can buy your SALON AND SPA services in BULK?


It's like shopping at the Sam's Club or Costco Warehouse but WAY more fun! Hmmm... purchase in advance and save money. I like this idea, especially where facials, massage, mani & pedis, and hair styles are concerned!

Clearly, I think the Frinj Salon & Spa owners got the idea from buying Monster Energy Drinks in bulk at Sam's. :)

Either way - here's a GIFT TIP for those of you living in the Dallas Metro Area:

Get your loved one a series of massage, facials, maniucures, peduicures, wax services, cut & style - anything you might want - you can buy in a series and save money. Great gift for a guy or a gal, and the perfect way to groom thyself & others for the holiday and beyond, or relax and escape day to day dilemmas.

The Eyebrow Saga - Part II

THICK, LUXURIOUS HAIR.

WHERE IT DOES NOT BELONG.

In my eyebrows. A few weeks ago.. I was so very worried that my eyebrows wouldn't grow back. And now - well, they have. While this is great news (mostly), the problem is that it's SUPER thick, and SUPER stubborn about how/where it 'points', if you will...

Now, it's not as thick as this unfortunate fellow, or as long - as I went to the Frinj Salon & Spa and had them trim me up.

After a general meeting on the subject, and close review of said hairs... everyone was pleased with the progress, and very kind about not commenting on the scraggly and skyward appearance of the few hairs that have made a resurgence on my forehead since the over-pluck drama.

So I guess the new challenge - training those brow-hairs. Just the ones in the middle by my nose where I over-plucked. I'll be experimenting over the next few weeks, before I post the third installment of the Eyebrow Saga - by:

• Blow-drying my brows with low heat in the direction I'd like to train them
• Testing product, maybe mousse?
• Having individual coaching sessions with each batch of brow hairs, to try and coax them into laying down.

If you're a stylist, or eyebrow-pluck-expert - I welcome any and all comments and suggestions on my proposed plan of action and next steps.....

Cheers to all!!

I've Been To Bootcamp

I've been to boot camp, and broken of my poor blow dry habits.

I've learned what "Power Drying" is, and why we do it. I've learned how to make my bangs mind (because bangs are so seriously mischievous...). I've learned that simple mistakes can easy fixes can put a stop to bad hair days. I've learned about great product, and not-so-great product. Basically - I've been broken of bad hair drying habits.

Now, I practice at home - in the effort
to get great salon style. Round brush in one hand, hairdryer in the other. It's not going to be easy, but Kishia, my hair drying commander ensured me that with proper practice - I'll get it right. And you know what? I've had great results.

Learn more about Blow Dry Boot Camp and be WHIP UP on that hair!

The Eyebrow Saga - Part I

Hello there friends in fashion, here's a little post to tell you about my over-plucked eyebrow problem, where we stand now, and what I've learned.

Of course, two full years before I found myself in my over-plucked state, Jennifer Aniston was in the top 4 of "Best Eyebrows" for their natural look according to USA Today - funny...I didn't make that list.

In fear of getting a unibrow, (this unibrow eyebrow article says Unibrows are NEVER ok... but offers the do's and don'ts of having a unibrow...) I began plucking around 25. That seems like too long to wait, doesn't it? Yes, but I began to 'feminize my face' around this time, because a really snazzy co-worker mentioned to me, "Man, you need to pluck those things so you'll look like a girl."

So, I began 'clearing out' those brows, occasionally getting a wax. I never liked doing wax, as it always resulted in LESS brows than I had before (I'm talkin' about overall shape here) and lots of little bumps and irritation. Nonetheless, I did 'what everyone else was doing' - that was, keeping up with my friends who had 'socially acceptable eyebrows'.

So, over the past decade or so - my eyebrows have dwindled a bit - but they're still fairly full. I went in to see Ashley, at the Salon. She was so sweet, she didn't laugh at me, she just took care of my strays, gently waxed the fuzz from my face surrounding the eyebrows, and then - she dropped the bomb: "I'm not sure your eyebrows will grow back in the middle, there...."

I was momentarily devastated, thinking HOW could I have let myself overpluck? How did I get here? How could I have let this happen?

Without a doubt... I had a vision of my mother and grandmother, with their mouths hanging open and tongues sticking out, while an inch away from a mirror with the little brown eyebrow pencil DRAWING their eyebrows in.

She told me that I could use makeup (I chose a brush, and a dark Bare Escentuals mineral make up eye shadow that we carry in our boutique) to gently 'brush in' some color where my hair should be. And you know what? It's not so bad. It just feels weird.

Plus, if you get all 'stressed out' and put your head in your hand, or wipe the sweat you've been accumilating off your brow, rub your eyes or your forehead - you'll smear brown or black stuff all over your forehead and someone will tell you that "you've got a little toner on your forehead, to be more careful with the copy machine next time..."

So - Right now, I'm going to let them TRY to grow back. Ashley's not sure that they will, but hope remains.

Tune in later for more on this saga....

The All New Frinj Salon & Spa

The all-new Frinj Salon & Spa welcomes you to experience a new kind of salon and spa, one designed to be trendy, innovative and fresh! While we cater to a younger crowd, everyone is welcome and will be thrilled with our young atmosphere.

Our team is vibrant and experienced with all things beauty; and are ready to take care of you in a personal and professional way.

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